Recently come across the forum : do u think he is THE ONE for u
a member actually post this msg
to me, there is no such thing as the one. We will continue to come across people that we can gel and have chemistry with. All these pple could be potential mates too. HOWEVER, when we marry, we are cherishing the special relationship and love that the both of you have built upon. Every relationship differs. And most importantly, we are in a different stage too.
What we were able to build in the past might not be possible in future even with the same person. So, do we want to cherish and grow what we already have or get confused everytime thinking that there is one perfect mould for us. It doesn't exist. Every single person is different and we continue to grow and change. Even if its a perfect fit today. 10 yrs down the road, there is no guarantee anymore. And if you continue to expect this perfection, you will be disappointed every time asking yourself the question time and again.
Compatibility is just one of the basic need to facilitate communication and understanding. But it is not the key to marriage. We probably find some others out there that are compatible too.
Friday, January 11, 2008
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
slacking , aimless life
Got up really late today at exactly 12noon , feeling heaviness and dizzyness in my head.
What a great condition to start my tuesday with claries not morris . Last night was worried about dearie going back to his office . I wanted to be there for him after work , I wanan to know how he was doing. Apparently , the matter haven resolved so it got me worried probably for the whole of this week . I prayed to God that hope he will be fine and matters will be resolved . Don't ask me about it okie . Hmm , I wonder how will my lifestyle change after I graduate . I believe I am afraid of adaptation and afraid of being socially-inactive . holidays come and I rarely meet up my uni friends . It is how i feel there are 'distances' between us and I dun feel like chatitng with them , there is not much topic to go about . I feel exhausted but there is so much to do . Looking forward to fri exercising with wei in school . Yes ar , we are going jogging finally , my first routine for 2008. I misses doing sport do much but dear and I din share my view . Too bad . Indeed wemt online to read some makeup tips and learn . okie need to go for eyebrow trimming this week but here i am feeling lazy and plus my ah wei is not free . lp dunno need to trim or not
helps !!!!
reis
What a great condition to start my tuesday with claries not morris . Last night was worried about dearie going back to his office . I wanted to be there for him after work , I wanan to know how he was doing. Apparently , the matter haven resolved so it got me worried probably for the whole of this week . I prayed to God that hope he will be fine and matters will be resolved . Don't ask me about it okie . Hmm , I wonder how will my lifestyle change after I graduate . I believe I am afraid of adaptation and afraid of being socially-inactive . holidays come and I rarely meet up my uni friends . It is how i feel there are 'distances' between us and I dun feel like chatitng with them , there is not much topic to go about . I feel exhausted but there is so much to do . Looking forward to fri exercising with wei in school . Yes ar , we are going jogging finally , my first routine for 2008. I misses doing sport do much but dear and I din share my view . Too bad . Indeed wemt online to read some makeup tips and learn . okie need to go for eyebrow trimming this week but here i am feeling lazy and plus my ah wei is not free . lp dunno need to trim or not
helps !!!!
reis
Thursday, January 03, 2008
Year 2008 with ah bui!
we're the pigs! =D
the top view from the pagoda
That's my silly ah bui with his relatives. =/
My Frozen expression. =P
He bullied me!! =(
Ok, that's the end. Our monkey face. lol. Happy new year girls! =D
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