time reveals a man's character and i firmly believe it.
after the breakup, yyp wasnt exactly nice to me like what we used to when we were still friends. In his words, i found sacarsm and hate. I felt like he was trying to make me feel that i'm the loser in my life without him.
His words contained discouragement and mockery. wth..
cuzzie says i shouldnt judge because i wasnt him.
fine. that's nt the point.
but how can a guy be such a sore loser after the breakup?
and... i really really cannot stand guys who whined and complained abt little things in life and sounds so pathetic you know?
everyday, his conversation would start with grumblings. tell you, i'm not the girl who would listen to whinings from guys!!!
and i hate xiao nan ren!! *ar bish!*
anyway, it's OK!
life's still beautiful after waking up from a dream. i am happily attached and contented with the way life turns out to be. i dont give a damn to ppl who discourages me. *pui!*
life shld be an experience worth of trying.
^-^ am a happy ping!
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
mENS
1. Men are NOT mind readers
1. Learn to work the toilet seat
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down
We need it up, you need it down
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides. Let it be
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no
we are never going to think of it that way
1. Crying is blackmail
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear> >>in this one: Subtle hints do not work!> >>Strong hints do not work! Obvious> >>hints do not work! Just say it
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's > >>what we do.Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In > >>fact,> >>all comments become null and void> >>after 7 days
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us > >>to act> >>like soap opera guys.> >>> >>1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.> >>Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways > >>makes you> >>sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something> >>Or tell us how you want it done. Not both.> >>If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.> >>> >>1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during > >>commercials.> >>> >>1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, > >>for> >>example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is> >>also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.> >>> >>1. If it itches, it will be scratched.> >>We do that.> >>> >>1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like > >>nothing's wrong.> >>We know you are lying, but it is just not> >>worth the hassle.> >>> >>
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you > >>don't want to hear.> >>> >>1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is > >>fine...Really.> >>> >>
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to > >>discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,> >>or golf.> >>> >>1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape
Thank you for reading this.> >>Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch> >>tonight; But did you know men really don't> >>mind that? It's like camping.
Pass this to as many men as you can -to give them a laugh.Pass this to as many women as you can -> >> to give them a bigger laugh
1. Learn to work the toilet seat
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down
We need it up, you need it down
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides. Let it be
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no
we are never going to think of it that way
1. Crying is blackmail
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear> >>in this one: Subtle hints do not work!> >>Strong hints do not work! Obvious> >>hints do not work! Just say it
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's > >>what we do.Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In > >>fact,> >>all comments become null and void> >>after 7 days
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us > >>to act> >>like soap opera guys.> >>> >>1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.> >>Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways > >>makes you> >>sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something> >>Or tell us how you want it done. Not both.> >>If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.> >>> >>1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during > >>commercials.> >>> >>1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, > >>for> >>example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is> >>also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.> >>> >>1. If it itches, it will be scratched.> >>We do that.> >>> >>1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like > >>nothing's wrong.> >>We know you are lying, but it is just not> >>worth the hassle.> >>> >>
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you > >>don't want to hear.> >>> >>1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is > >>fine...Really.> >>> >>
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to > >>discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,> >>or golf.> >>> >>1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape
Thank you for reading this.> >>Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch> >>tonight; But did you know men really don't> >>mind that? It's like camping.
Pass this to as many men as you can -to give them a laugh.Pass this to as many women as you can -> >> to give them a bigger laugh
He's more than i can ask for
these days it has been a period of happiness and self-created doubts. perhaps it was the experience of pure bliss or the doubts cast by the close ones around me that i didnt want to believe that it was a dream.
just a dream. Nightmares were no longer prevalent in my life and i didnt wish for it to happen again.
the trip to the zoo was by far the most happiest time in my life. We acted silly together, was under the scorching sun, shared our water together, etc etc. Even though he was more sensitive to heat and light than i was, he still stop by a while to ask if i'm still ok and if i'm too tired to carry on walking. Mouse's right when she said that if you love a person, even the simplest stuff he does will make you feel contented and happy. I was contented by just walking beside him.
I'd dare say he's the nicest man that ever treated me when i compared among the past. For now, i'd say he's the greatest man i've met.
to describe him, it takes more than words to put it across.
he's the man who:
1. puts in effort to make me laugh
2. wished upon the wishing well to bless me of happiness
3. surprises me in a little way by remembering all the things that i've told him (He bought me my fav biscuits so that i wont starve myself when i worked overtime.)
4. He clears up my mess and cover up for me during my work. ( i accidentally erased all the pics we took when we were in the zoo. He slept late for 3 consecutive days to find some softwares just to recover back our pictures which he succeeded it today.)
5. He calls me when he thinks of me. (yyp doesnt call nor sms me often.)
6. Even when he;s tired, he doesnt complain. There was once when i slept very soundly on his shoulder and... his shoulder aches so much! yet i found it out after i hit him on his arm. =x)
7. He takes care of his colleague by buying food for them.
8. He helps the cleaner auntie to empty the heavy dustbins and offered food to her.
9. He makes an effort to be there for me and send me off to sleep when i am tired. (yyp wont! will keep talking to me till i ask him to stop!)
10. He carries my laptop bag for me even when i insisted on carrying it myself. (YYP would allow me to take my own laptop!!)
11. He carries all my stuff when i go out with him. My heavy water bottle, etc.
12. He bought breakfast for my family.
13. He will cook for me!! (oops, i mean willing to learn how to cook my fav dish)
14. He takes good care of elderly! and open the car door for me all the time.
15. He protects me from getting hurt. (for my in-born clumsiness)
For everything that he is, there's alot more reason why i love him.
In time to come, i hope i wont have to be hurt anymore or my feelings be swayed again.
For now,
I'm happy. really.
love can be so selfish and overwhelming at times...
And i'm really sorry for making a mistake that would have caused such a great blow to yyp. The past will soon be over. Life's a new journey again. =)
just a dream. Nightmares were no longer prevalent in my life and i didnt wish for it to happen again.
the trip to the zoo was by far the most happiest time in my life. We acted silly together, was under the scorching sun, shared our water together, etc etc. Even though he was more sensitive to heat and light than i was, he still stop by a while to ask if i'm still ok and if i'm too tired to carry on walking. Mouse's right when she said that if you love a person, even the simplest stuff he does will make you feel contented and happy. I was contented by just walking beside him.
I'd dare say he's the nicest man that ever treated me when i compared among the past. For now, i'd say he's the greatest man i've met.
to describe him, it takes more than words to put it across.
he's the man who:
1. puts in effort to make me laugh
2. wished upon the wishing well to bless me of happiness
3. surprises me in a little way by remembering all the things that i've told him (He bought me my fav biscuits so that i wont starve myself when i worked overtime.)
4. He clears up my mess and cover up for me during my work. ( i accidentally erased all the pics we took when we were in the zoo. He slept late for 3 consecutive days to find some softwares just to recover back our pictures which he succeeded it today.)
5. He calls me when he thinks of me. (yyp doesnt call nor sms me often.)
6. Even when he;s tired, he doesnt complain. There was once when i slept very soundly on his shoulder and... his shoulder aches so much! yet i found it out after i hit him on his arm. =x)
7. He takes care of his colleague by buying food for them.
8. He helps the cleaner auntie to empty the heavy dustbins and offered food to her.
9. He makes an effort to be there for me and send me off to sleep when i am tired. (yyp wont! will keep talking to me till i ask him to stop!)
10. He carries my laptop bag for me even when i insisted on carrying it myself. (YYP would allow me to take my own laptop!!)
11. He carries all my stuff when i go out with him. My heavy water bottle, etc.
12. He bought breakfast for my family.
13. He will cook for me!! (oops, i mean willing to learn how to cook my fav dish)
14. He takes good care of elderly! and open the car door for me all the time.
15. He protects me from getting hurt. (for my in-born clumsiness)
For everything that he is, there's alot more reason why i love him.
In time to come, i hope i wont have to be hurt anymore or my feelings be swayed again.
For now,
I'm happy. really.
love can be so selfish and overwhelming at times...
And i'm really sorry for making a mistake that would have caused such a great blow to yyp. The past will soon be over. Life's a new journey again. =)
Sunday, July 08, 2007
Road of faith in R/S
Finally... after some struggles within myself, i told myself to trust and have faith in this man and in this relationship too.
Afterall, i tink the most basic and fundamental essence in a relationship is trust and faith. Don't u agree with me too? I chose the way and path to trust him and disregard whatever what others say to me... This issue has made another advancement to our r/s too... Bcos of this, it brings us closer and have faith, trust and confidence in each other.
Gals... Thanks for ur jiayou and support!!! Although I'm @ the other part of the world with these arab people who are so disgusting... i reli feel the care and support from u. I feel thankful that i've such lovely frens... hehe! Love u all so much... muacks!
~~Catch up with u gals when i get back in Spore!!! It'S Goona reli soon... reli soon!!! Wait for me... dont miss me out in KTV and shopping session!!! (",) Miss u...
Afterall, i tink the most basic and fundamental essence in a relationship is trust and faith. Don't u agree with me too? I chose the way and path to trust him and disregard whatever what others say to me... This issue has made another advancement to our r/s too... Bcos of this, it brings us closer and have faith, trust and confidence in each other.
Gals... Thanks for ur jiayou and support!!! Although I'm @ the other part of the world with these arab people who are so disgusting... i reli feel the care and support from u. I feel thankful that i've such lovely frens... hehe! Love u all so much... muacks!
~~Catch up with u gals when i get back in Spore!!! It'S Goona reli soon... reli soon!!! Wait for me... dont miss me out in KTV and shopping session!!! (",) Miss u...
The goodness in him that I failed to realised ...
School started with a really hectic schedule that really caught me off-guard . I know I shouldnt be complaining when there are ppl who are working and studying . I finally understand how tough night class can be . I had it for the past few days the next morning we still had our lesson . This is really taxing on me .
I really blame myself for not having a proper rest and off i went for class immediately after the last day of my work on tuesday . Tiredness had snowballed on me . I feel so exhausted and I haven't started preparing my assignments for coming next week. Today i am going to
plan my exercise schedule
prepare for my interview assignment
read up newspaper
search for my textbooks
scan the dc project cover
self study japanese ok
apparently , He was very thoughtful for coming to fetch me on my night class . I was really grateful to him for even getting me fried rice for supper. I haven got my dinner and I feel really hungry even though there are refreshments . I wonder why i failed to see the goodness in him. Probably , after that major arguements we had last last week . We kind of feel better letting out those negative elements out .
ok , sat was a great day . I was grateful that I only had half a day lesson of that wil2. Enough !!!
Finally get to see my gfs ... but however i was down with a stupid cramps that kill our shopping spirit . Sorry ! I really wanna to enjoy the outing with you girls. I miss seeing liping and peiwei . lp bring us to a japanese restaurant that serve good cold ramen . hee ,it was nice and the taste lingered in my mouth . The char siew ramen i ordered was great too except i would say " chef , where is my fish cake ?" haha . the soup base is good and the char siew not very fat plus QQ noodle. hee , if not for my cramps , i guess i would have an enjoyable meal.
Next we proceed to go for our shopping activities but failed to get anything . Hopefully next time outing will be better !! Finally saw mr. glenn lim (lp's new bf) and I felt that he look mature for his age . How to say le ? He look ok , but probably we din talk so i dunno how to judge .
after sending lp to his bf's arms , we went home . He was really nice , offering me a ride home and then we went to get our pasta ingredients . I had a sick and tiring day though . We proceed to cook our pasta together but there was some funny incidents . I was supposed totake care of the pasta . He, would do the cooking for the minced beef. It turned out I had set a timing 11min , then i realised the clock hand is not moving . when he asked me is the pasta ready , i told him , just now i put in is at 6pm , now it is still 6pm . Then we both laughed when we realised the clock spoilt . Luckily , we managed to save the pasta . It was a lazy night when all his family are out watchin transformers , we just laze cozily on the couch and have tea .
I finally realised that sometime when we are blaming the bad point of our partners , we should reflect about those good memories before we make any judgement .
ganbatte !!
School started with a really hectic schedule that really caught me off-guard . I know I shouldnt be complaining when there are ppl who are working and studying . I finally understand how tough night class can be . I had it for the past few days the next morning we still had our lesson . This is really taxing on me .
I really blame myself for not having a proper rest and off i went for class immediately after the last day of my work on tuesday . Tiredness had snowballed on me . I feel so exhausted and I haven't started preparing my assignments for coming next week. Today i am going to
plan my exercise schedule
prepare for my interview assignment
read up newspaper
search for my textbooks
scan the dc project cover
self study japanese ok
apparently , He was very thoughtful for coming to fetch me on my night class . I was really grateful to him for even getting me fried rice for supper. I haven got my dinner and I feel really hungry even though there are refreshments . I wonder why i failed to see the goodness in him. Probably , after that major arguements we had last last week . We kind of feel better letting out those negative elements out .
ok , sat was a great day . I was grateful that I only had half a day lesson of that wil2. Enough !!!
Finally get to see my gfs ... but however i was down with a stupid cramps that kill our shopping spirit . Sorry ! I really wanna to enjoy the outing with you girls. I miss seeing liping and peiwei . lp bring us to a japanese restaurant that serve good cold ramen . hee ,it was nice and the taste lingered in my mouth . The char siew ramen i ordered was great too except i would say " chef , where is my fish cake ?" haha . the soup base is good and the char siew not very fat plus QQ noodle. hee , if not for my cramps , i guess i would have an enjoyable meal.
Next we proceed to go for our shopping activities but failed to get anything . Hopefully next time outing will be better !! Finally saw mr. glenn lim (lp's new bf) and I felt that he look mature for his age . How to say le ? He look ok , but probably we din talk so i dunno how to judge .
after sending lp to his bf's arms , we went home . He was really nice , offering me a ride home and then we went to get our pasta ingredients . I had a sick and tiring day though . We proceed to cook our pasta together but there was some funny incidents . I was supposed totake care of the pasta . He, would do the cooking for the minced beef. It turned out I had set a timing 11min , then i realised the clock hand is not moving . when he asked me is the pasta ready , i told him , just now i put in is at 6pm , now it is still 6pm . Then we both laughed when we realised the clock spoilt . Luckily , we managed to save the pasta . It was a lazy night when all his family are out watchin transformers , we just laze cozily on the couch and have tea .
I finally realised that sometime when we are blaming the bad point of our partners , we should reflect about those good memories before we make any judgement .
ganbatte !!
Monday, July 02, 2007
Never had a dream come true
was happy.
at last. I declared myself a warm blooded creature again.
never did i realise myself to wait for someone's smses, someone's calls. It has been long isnt it? To feel what it was like to be in love and to love someone again. Yesterday was the best moment in my life. Both of us caught a movie, ate ice-creams and sushi tei (which we enjoyed our food very much!), sat in cable cars and watched the songs by the sea in sentosa.
enthralled. mesmerised by the songs by the sea. woo.. laser + music performance. Till then, i know what romance was. THAT WAS SUPER NICE! oops. pardon my sudden outbursts.
anway, on the way back to harbour front, sitting in the cable car watching the night view and the moon, i was rather afraid to look down. It's just a phobia since young that i dread the black sea at night. he, who is very irritating during the ride, trying to scare the hell out of me.... held my hands to calm my nerves.
nope, we werent together yet. not yet anyway.
this time, my heart says go ahead. perhaps it's true this time coz i keep sending the pics to a couples of closest frens! Like i'm on top of the world like that. =O
girls, i'm so happy! really happy and glad that i finally can love someone...
lalalala~~
i'm a pisces afterall! ^-^V
enjoy the pics!
abit blur though....
at last. I declared myself a warm blooded creature again.
never did i realise myself to wait for someone's smses, someone's calls. It has been long isnt it? To feel what it was like to be in love and to love someone again. Yesterday was the best moment in my life. Both of us caught a movie, ate ice-creams and sushi tei (which we enjoyed our food very much!), sat in cable cars and watched the songs by the sea in sentosa.
enthralled. mesmerised by the songs by the sea. woo.. laser + music performance. Till then, i know what romance was. THAT WAS SUPER NICE! oops. pardon my sudden outbursts.
anway, on the way back to harbour front, sitting in the cable car watching the night view and the moon, i was rather afraid to look down. It's just a phobia since young that i dread the black sea at night. he, who is very irritating during the ride, trying to scare the hell out of me.... held my hands to calm my nerves.
nope, we werent together yet. not yet anyway.
this time, my heart says go ahead. perhaps it's true this time coz i keep sending the pics to a couples of closest frens! Like i'm on top of the world like that. =O
girls, i'm so happy! really happy and glad that i finally can love someone...
lalalala~~
i'm a pisces afterall! ^-^V
enjoy the pics!
abit blur though....
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